Sarah thanks again for your comments. It’s nice to see that not everyone flies off the handle. It is appreciated. (And the pic of him and the girls was just to get a rise out of everyone back home. And, well honestly, it appears to have worked.)
Anyway, do you remember me talking about my friend that was having the problem with dumping a guy? Well, I think that me, and two other friends, were able to get through to her. (Well, there is a little more to it than that. There always is.) We talked for a long time. (Well, for a guy, the hour and a half IS a long time to talk about someone else’s relationship.) And she admitted to starting to get involved in one of our friends. So I was right, kind of. It wasn’t the friend I thought it was. But, he’s still a much better guy then the one she was with. (I’ve known him for almost a year and a half.) Now, I’ll just have to wait and see if she sticks to her guns. (Keep your fingers crossed.) I know that I wish her and the new guy the best.
But this brings me to a new problem. What happens when the three of them are in the same place at the same time? (You know it will happen. We all hang out at the same places.) Both guys are friends of mine. (Ok, equal there.) Both are in the same unit as me. (Still no help.) Do I break it down to as stupid a thing as how long I’ve known each one? (I’ve known the new one a little longer) Do I base it off of previous treatment? (The new guy is just starting. And I kind of sympathize with the old one.) I really don’t know what to do. Or, even if I should do anything at all. But, thankfully, I have a little bit of time to think about it.
Well, enough about depressing stuff. As ya’ll know, Bizkit and I are friends. And last night we had dinner over at his place with Kiwi and the Brit. The Okie was supposed to show up too, but called and said she couldn’t. I made beef enchiladas (cheese ones for the Brit, bloody vegetarians.), salsa (home made, not from a jar.), and some refried beans (these are from a can, haven’t figured those out yet). Yes, I can cook, and pretty damn well too. Everyone enjoyed the meal, including Brit. (Even though she didn’t know what and enchilada was. I give her props for trusting me enough to try them.) Kiwi picked up some wine. And we all agreed, (Except for Bizkit, he had Absinth.) that the wine tasted terrible. I think that its taste just clashed too much with the food. But it’s the thought that counts, after all. Everyone had a good time. We watched a couple of movies. (Eurotrip and Closer) I love Eurotrip, it’s a hilarious movie. (Especially the Italian guy on the train.) But Closer, man that is a screwed up movie. I don’t see why they all just didn’t kill themselves. (Other than it wasn’t in the script.) If you’ve seen the movie, and you like it, I think you need your head examined. After that, me and Brit left to go our separate ways, and Kiwi stayed to watch another movie. Bizkit told me what it was, but I forgot. All in all, it was a good night.
Today, I was able to leave at lunch and not come back. What a way to start a four day weekend. But, I have to pull 24 hour duty tomorrow. What a way to screw up a four day weekend. At least I will get a few days of it. And right now, it looks like I’ll be meeting Kiwi, Brit, and Bizkit. (Along with the usual cast of characters that I don’t mention that often, i.e. Okie and Fred.) So, because I don’t have net access while I’m on duty, there may not be a post tomorrow. But I plan on working on one with all of the time I’ll have. Which means you can look forward to a well thought out (at least for me) one on Saturday.
Well, that’s about all I have for now. I’ll see ya’ll later.
1 comment:
After having plenty of experience in trying to get a friend to leave a guy I'm going to let you know that they are only going to leave when they finally have the last straw. Believe me it takes a lot. They do come and say they will but always remember actions speak louder then words. Value both of your friend individually and together. One girl shouldn't change the way you approach a friend. (Few exceptions to that rule) If all are ok with it why not hang out together? Also look at if you were the old guys friend just because she was dating him and you wanted to respect her and get along. If that is the case then don't write him off but it lets you know that you would choose the new guy. Lil Froggy asked me to ask one thing of you. (I told her what I did. She wasn't happy at first but she is ok now.) She asks that you take care of Biz for her and make sure he stays out of trouble. She still cares about him deeply but because of reasons can't be with him right now. How fun on 24 hour duty.
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