What in the hell is he talking about?!?

   Well, well, well.  It seems that I may have touched a nerve.  (Look at Lil’ Froggy’s comment to my last.)  And I have a few comments myself.

1. I don’t know exactly what the promise was.  All I have to go on is Biz’s word and what you wrote here.


2. If you couldn’t trust him to be away from you, you should never have tried to get back together.  The same applies to him as well.  And I hate to say it, but, if you don’t learn to trust, most of your relationships will end in failure.  It’s just a fact of life.


3. The amount of time a relationship has been going is in no way related to how it will end up.  When it goes bad, regardless of the obvious reason, both parties are at least somewhat at fault.  


4. Once you, and he, get everything on track, and, possibly see each other some where, you may both be happy to see each other.  After all, we tend to remember the good things, and suppress the bad.  

   What do we look for in a relationship?  Do we even know?  I know that I sure as hell don’t.  At least not until I find myself in one.  Sometimes I don’t even realize that I’m in one until it slaps me in the face.  Its not that I’m dense, (Shut up Biz!) it’s just that I really don’t look for them.  That sounds kind of backwards, after all, with most people, they actively try to start them.  You know, they find someone they’re interested in, and then they begin the hunt.

   Yes I said hunt.  That’s what it is.  Tell me I’m wrong and I’ll tell you why I’m right.  A hunter gets all dressed up and then goes someplace that he knows will have the prey he wants.  He sits there in wait, getting the lay of the land and generally becoming comfortable with the surroundings.  Then, he spots the perfect target.  Now, sometimes, the prey has to be stalked, some more than others.  (Remember, I’m talking about hunting here.)  Then, when everything is set, and the timing is right, he strikes.  Sometimes it’s a killing blow; sometimes you just wing them, and have to track them a little bit longer.  And, unfortunately, sometimes they get away.

   Now, to put this as it applies to what I’m talking about.  We get dressed up, and head out to the clubs, bars, or whatever we go to, just as long as the opposite sex is there.  (And they’re the type we prefer.)  You get a few drinks, listen to a little music and maybe dance a little to get comfortable.  You look around at the prospects till you see one you like.  And then, you start to move in.  Using the angles that have worked on others before.  This may last only for the night, or it could take several attempts, before you are in the relationship.  Or, you could go down in flames.

   See what I mean?  I’m sure that other people have other ways of putting it that are more politically correct, (You wouldn’t believe how much I hate that term.) but that’s not me.  Now, go ahead and tell me I’m wrong.  It won’t make a difference to me.  

   Now, as to me not normally realizing I’m in a relationship.  By that, I mean that I am more interested in starting friendships (Friends last longer, lovers and girl/boyfriends generally don’t.) than in starting relationships.  But, that doesn’t mean I would look the other way if I found myself the target of a hunt.  After all, no one wants to be alone all the time.  Its nice to have someone to share your life with.  (Great, now I’m starting to ramble.  Not that I wasn’t before.)  Anyways, all relationships take 2 people to work, but they also take both to fall apart.  

   Well, I’ll see ya’ll later.